Focussing on yourself in a narcissistic world

Focussing on myself has always been a touchy subject to me. I don’t know why, but working on myself has never been a real priority to me. Usually I would look after others, even under the mask of focussing on me. I’m always there for my friends, and while that is a wonderful trait I’m […]

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GRL PWR

Girl hate. Something we are taught from an early age, that we as girls are competition. Somehow even though we are all sitting in the same boat, we have to compete, usually (of course) for the love/desire of a man. So that’s when we get jealous of that pretty girl over there in the red […]

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My body, my temple, my ruin | Body+

I want to start a series on this blog, dedicated solely to body positivity and body image. For that reason over the course of the next weeks, maybe even months I’m going to have inspiring people write for me, tell you how they see the topic. I’m calling this series Body+, as in body positive. […]

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Pain bodies and how they influence us

I’m no expert on this topic, yet I seemingly know a little about it. My friend’s mother has a lot of knowledge on this topic and some of it she shared with me, it seriously changed my life. Every single one of us, has a pain body. Imagine it as a sort of energy field […]

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The art of letting go

Letting go is something we as humans want to avoid at any cost. We collect things, we collect people. We are hoarders, of feelings, of memories, of something that was almost there, but never quite. We forget that letting go is existential for us, our health and well being. Trapped in what we desperately hold […]

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A letter to my Ex

Lately I feel like the reason you left me wasn’t actually what you told me, but more what you didn’t say at all. You pushed me away, like you tried before, only this time I followed. I left, just like you wanted me to. Started over, just like you told me to. Got happy, like […]

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The girl with the red hair

Her voice is very soft and gentle, yet sometimes there is this dark in it something that promises more Her voice is quite deep and soothing like I could fall asleep while she speaks, but never sleep at the same time She probably has the sexiest voice I’ve ever heard. Like the kind that makes […]

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